Sex is something that everyone enjoys yet most know little about ‘HOW’ to do it right. The reason for this can be simple. It is very difficult to learn about sex,(anonymously) on the net without getting swamped by disgusting and tasteless porn advertisements. There are also certain concerns you will want to address if you are going to try and surf for the right information on sex. The computer can and will identify with all those aggressive marketing nightmares ייעוץ מיני when you begin your research.
There are a huge amount of sites dedicated to all kinds of sex and the best way to avoid the ‘Smut’ is to be specific in your search and keep your guard up. The learning curve can be reduced without having to witness something graphically overwhelming, or embarrassing yourself in any way. Just get some sound, sexual advice from an expert and try out some ‘Hands on Training’ with the one you love.
Here is what I recommend.
Acquire your information privately and go over in private as well. If you can do this without your partner around then you can delete the things you do not want or think will not be appropriate. Then, find the best thing that you think will stimulate the both of you. After you find that special something that will work for you both, start your search to find something that you will want for yourself and tuck that one away for later. Afterwards you should find something that you know your special someone will particularly enjoy. This is the one you want for the surprise and the one to do first.
So, after reviewing all the info; you should have yourself(at least) three sexy secrets to enjoy.
Do not say anything about it before hand. Just keep it to yourself. Go over it thoroughly in your mind as much as possible. After you have found the things you really like, then mentally picture it. Get these creative images as detailed as you can. The place, the time, the technique, every detail imaginable. This is basic creative visualization. Go over it mentally, over and over, until you have it down pat and have found the best way possible to make it work.This is creative visualization that should be really easy to get into, not to mention fun.
Then, when the time is right, spring it on them as naturally as you can. Try not to “make it” happen too much as it will become obvious and ruin the surprise. This will be unnatural and make it more difficult to accomplish. Just kind of set the stage for it to play out on its own. Just keep to the guidelines you practiced in your mind and the highlights will naturally fall into place.
Surprising your partner with something that they will enjoy first, will open the window for implementing all the other things that you will want for yourself, and then the both of you equally. This will lead to learning more about yourself and your lover sexually as well as build a deeper bond between you both. Just keep in mind your partners likes and dislikes and everything should go over well. Remember that it should be fun and it will be fun, stimulating, and satisfying as well as extremely educational.